Happy New Year! I was thinking about resolutions – and the ‘re’ piece means again or back to. And for most of us, any resolutions are another attempt to make a change for the better, usually ones we’ve had a go at several times before. However, if we do what we’ve always done, we get what we’ve always got. So the most important thing about having another go is to make sure that we learn from previous failures, and do it in a different way.
Life is one long experiment for finding out what really works for us, and we’re stubborn creatures – if it didn’t work for us before, it’s unlikely to if we adopt the same approach again.
So do have another go, but do it differently!
- Make the goals smaller, easier to achieve – we are more motivated to build on a success.
- Do the steps towards it in a different order, or using a different motivation
- Find a different way of measuring your progress
- Find some way of encouraging yourself to keep going
If you look back, you will realise that most positive changes in your life have come about gradually – some of mine have taken years to become habitual!
So do have another go – this may be the time that makes the difference, and the experimentation can be fun!